Monday, November 25, 2013

Fake Friday Flush


 
You gotta love have a Mush and a Flush back to back….that means it is a really short week! 




I think this quote is perfect for our Thanksgiving break as we head into a gift giving season.  There is nothing more powerful that feeling gratitude from someone. 

I hope that your list of what you are thankful is growing every year.  I hope this year it is the longest ever.  I hope that you have so much to be thankful for that you can’t even think of it all.  But, more so, I hope you share gratitude with others.  I hope you are able to express why you are thankful for them.

I hope this break is a break full of family and friends and rest.  I hope it is full of great deals and happy shopping too.  But, more so, I hope that of the expression of gratitude. 

Enjoy your break…you deserve it…Happy “Fake Friday!”

Sunday, November 24, 2013

Monday Mush -- Choices


I completely love this photo.  I think it embodies what we try to do here at Huggins every day.  We choose to be positive even if we don’t want to. 

It is cliché by now, but It does remind me of our Cinderella analogy.  We you go to Disney, I am sure that Cinderella hasn’t always had a good morning of a good day prior.  I bet her boyfriend was a jerk, she was stuck in traffic, her parents split up, her rent is overdue, or something like that.  But, she has to choose to smile instead of letting that affect her day…she has to choose to be in the moment for the kids.  Her life isn’t perfect…but she makes a choice to bless others anyway.

I tell people a lot that in a car the rear view mirror is important, but it is MUCH smaller than the windshield.  What is in front of you is MUCH more important than what is behind.  The road ahead should be your focus.  If you spent all your time looking backward, it is a dangerous thing.  You lose sight of the possibilities, and you view life in too small a box.  There is a big windshield in front of you….

I hope this week is a perfect week for you…I truly do…but reality tells me it probably won’t be.  I haven’t had one yet either.  But, we can all choose to be positive…choose to put our baggage down and do our job the best that we can.  I am glad that you are hear…I appreciate all you do!  I hope this week is fun and exciting…thanks for choosing to work here! 

Happy Monday!

Thursday, November 21, 2013

Friday Flush



Here is a video from another TEDTalk.  I got the link from Ms. McKey, the principal at Meyer Elementary.  I had the privilege to hear her speak in person a few years ago, and she is even more amazing in person.

Her sentiments ring so true in what we do.  Kids need relationships…they can’t learn without a person to connect with.  I also love her ability to spin any situation into a positive.  It builds self-esteem and gets them moving in the right direction.  It is built on a lesson of looking how much more a kid can do, not just what they can’t or aren’t doing.  That mindset shift is paramount in education.  It is why we do what we do.

We believe in kids because they don’t believe in themselves.  We invest in kids because we don’t know who else is.  We nurture relationships because that is how we capture their hearts.  We need to love the whole kid….and tell them that.  I once heard it said that we can’t have “tough love” without the love.  Make sure your kids know that they matter to you.  Find ways to show them and tell them.
 
Over the weekend, look for ways that you can flip a negative outcome into a positive learning experience for kids.  Look for ways to empower them to want to get better and take charge of their own learning. 

Thank you for doing what you do…thank you for being the great actors and actresses in the classroom that makes a difference!

Happy Friday!

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Monday Mush by Jennifer Johnson


I have always wanted to have a “guest writer” for a mush and flush.  I thought our rock star reading facilitator was a good place to start.  She has passed on several great quotes and videos that I used, so I thought she should write the whole thing.  Thanks, Jennifer, it is great stuff!


“If adults constantly bombard them with speeches they call lessons, then these students have had an entirely passive experience of education that doesn’t allow them to think for themselves.” – José Vilson

 
This week when I ran across this quote, I immediately thought about the voice of Charlie Brown’s teacher.  Not a single word is understandable, and it all sounds the same.  “Wua, wua, wua, wua,…”  Poor Charlie Brown sits with his head down on his desk slowly drifting off to sleep. No learning today.

In following the theme of “transferring the learning”, this quote also reminded me of a recent conversation with a teacher.
 

“There’s no excuse for all those kids to be in the red group!  They should know how to do it.  We talked about it for an entire week!”

 
And there, the method of instruction is revealed…talked about it.  Whatever teaching concept “it” may be at the time, talking about it and teaching it are two very different things.  Talking does not equal teaching.  Will students remember it tomorrow, next week, or next year just from hearing you talk about it?  Probably not.  And why should they when next year’s teacher is going to just talk to them about it again and next year’s teacher and so on.  It’s no wonder that after a few years of hearing teachers talk about this and talk about that, they’ve now developed into expert passive learners…just sit and get…wait to be told what to do…can’t think for themselves.   

 
So let’s be real, we talk too much.  The longer we talk, the less students listen.  And if they aren’t listening to you, what are they really doing?  Inferring?  Analyzing?  Creating?  We can only wish…

Take a look at the following diagram and notice how much we learn just from hearing it. 

 

Now look across at the learning outcomes we are able to do just from listening.  If listening is the only form of instruction, then we’re only equipping students to be able to do low level skills such as defining, describing, listing, and explaining.  That’s not enough to effectively learn.  That’s not enough to remember years later. That’s not enough to dig deeper.  That’s not enough for STAAR.  That’s not enough to problem solve.  That’s not enough to think on your own.  We must teach students in ways that equip them with the skills to think for themselves. 

 Don’t misunderstand, every level of learning has its place when scaffolding instruction.  Students must read text, listen to an explanation, see an anchor chart, video, or powerpoint; however, these instructional practices only count for roughly half of what’s required to learn.  If we stop here, we aren’t teaching enough.  In fact, we are limiting our student’s thinking.  We didn’t learn to ride a bike by reading about bikes or hearing an explanation about how to ride a bike.  We learned to ride a bike by doing it…riding a bike!  


A thousand hearings isn’t worth one seeing,
and a thousand seeings isn’t worth one doing.


We must push on and expect our students to explain what they’re learning, expect our students to write about what they’re learning, and expect our students to do the learning.  Learning can be hard.  It can be frustrating.  It can be confusing.  Our students need to feel comfortable with these emotions in order to press on to what’s more difficult. 

 
Today marks the beginning of talking less and allowing students to think and do more.  As with anything, it will take time so don’t give up too quickly.  Be patient and supportive as you provide them opportunities to think for themselves.  It won’t be long before they surpass our expectations! 

 

Thursday, November 14, 2013

Friday Flush -- Reversing the lost generation



Thank you, Ms. Johnson for passing this link on.  I loved it.  I think it does an amazing job at pointing out 2 factors…one is our preconceived notions about this generation and the second is what they truly can do and become.  We have to reverse the mind-set that is out there.  We get to work with this generation every day…we don’t have to “accept” that the negative stereotypes.  We can choose to change that and instill character, dedication, and work ethic to these kids. 

One of the joys of working in elementary schools is that we get to be so foundational.  I think sometimes when someone achieves something great, they remember those that taught those last skills in specific ways.  Great athletes remember their high school coaches….engineers remember their physics teachers….or a dedicated citizen remembers how a high school teacher cared more about them as a person than “just a student.”  We hear those things every day.  Why I said elementary is a joy is because we become a true seamless part of them.  We are so early in the process that they don’t know anything different.  They get your best every day, and it becomes a part of them.  It is truly powerful when you stand back and think about it.

I appreciate you guys…I appreciate how you can turn the paradigm of this generation on its head….thank you for giving of yourselves in ways that become a part of someone else in a positive way. 

Happy Friday!

Sunday, November 10, 2013

Monday Mush



There is nothing more powerful than when kids really “get it.”  They start to realize that there is more to life than just themselves.  They realize that they can positively impact someone else’s life.  They want to.  That is growing up the right way.

There are no short supply of sports stories like this one, but I NEVER get tired of watching them.  In fact, I love that there are so many like it.  That means it isn’t rare that our kids truly care for others.  That today’s youth are doomed like we might believe in some media circles. 

We have the chance to help foster this for students.  We have the ability and means to help them see themselves are participants in making positive change in the world.   I recently heard that we can’t really change the world…we can’t really change the nation…we can’t really change the city or any organization or institution.  We can, however, change ourselves in meaningful ways that affects others.  That in turn spreads like wild fire as one person affects another and so on….

I hope this week you see the good in these kids…you inspire them to make changes that can affect the world around them.

Happy Monday!

 

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Friday Flush -- Challenge


Below is the blog post article that I found about how hard it is to take the 24 hour “no complaining” challenge.  We tried last year for a day, and I remember talking with several staff members about how they didn’t make it 20 minutes.  It is a difficult thing to realize how much negativity we put on others by complaining.  It truly goes beyond “venting” to attention seeking, and it is very subtle.  It takes a lot to be cut off in traffic on the way to work and not complain.  Hard to reframe that to “I sure hope they are ok, and get to their destination safely…I am glad that I am on time to not have to worry like they are.”  But, the positive element vs. negative cannot be ignored.  We can easily get bogged down simply by complaining because we are dwelling in the negativity. We are getting it too much power over us. 

I want to challenge you this weekend to find a day…and just do it!  Don’t complain at all…reframe things to focus on the positive.  See if it provides you with more energy…see if others around you have more energy.  As Jon Gordon says…don’t be the energy vampire. 

 

The 24 Hour No-Complaining Challenge


By Kim Strickland, September 20, 2011 at 9:03 am

Go ahead, try it. I dare you. Try to go twenty-four hours without complaining. I am incapable. I've tried several times. And I don't consider myself a real, true complainer (you know the type). Although regular readers of my blog may beg to differ, seeing as how I can sometimes rant on for upwards of five hundred words. However, being a whiner is not the way I would, or want to, define myself.

We're raising our kids to not be complainers. Whining is not tolerated in our house. And we put-up with very little drama. This is not just because it's all so annoying. (But it is mostly because it's all so annoying.) It's about the power of attraction. Complaining is a form of attention-getting for all the negative things in your life. And who wants to attract more negatives into their lives?

It doesn't sound very hard, does it? Just stop complaining. Yet the dictionary defines the verb "complain" as:

1. to express dissatisfaction, pain, uneasiness, censure, resentment, or grief; find fault.

2. to tell of one's pains, ailments, etc.: to complain of a backache.

3. to make a formal accusation.

By this definition, it would mean most of us would have to cease all conversation completely. Just listen, the next time you're having a conversation. As a fiction writer, I know stories aren't interesting unless they involve conflict, and complaining is a form of describing conflict, I suppose, but maybe we should come up with a better way to make our stories interesting (colorful, fictitious names for the characters perhaps?).

As any good new age woo-hoo knows, the first step in fixing a problem is recognizing you have one and I began to notice how much complaining I was actually doing. I'd find myself dumping all the negative experiences I'd had during the day on my poor husband night after night. I don't know if it was even conscious or not, this need for me to vent as a way to release all the negativity, but recently it occurred to me: Maybe I am a complainer. Not wanting to attract any more negativity into my life, I decided it might be a good idea for me to stop complaining about stuff. (A great idea, says the husband.)

It didn't sound too hard. Until I tried it. When I was paying attention, I realized so much of what I said could be construed as a complaint. I found myself hacking my watch to restart my 24-hour-no-complaining-clock every fifteen-minutes. Finally, I just gave up, vowing simply to try to do better. Of course I'm disappointed in my inability to stop completely, but I suppose I shouldn't complain about it.

Happy Friday!

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Monday Mush???


I am not sure the percentage of these that I start with “I love this quote,” but I am sure it is a lot.  I guess it should go without saying that I love the quote, or I wouldn’t take the time to use and write about it, right? 

This quote is really a great summary of my vision for this campus and these students.  We have students that genuinely want to learn and are supported at home in the process.  We have a great opportunity to put this quote in action.  We can transfer the power of teaching into the students hands.  We can ask more questions, instead of providing answers.

You are probably starting to see a theme in my messages and my study topics each week…we need to transfer the learning onto the students.  We need to ask more questions, and then step back and provide time.  Time for the students to explore and discover.  It is hard to not guide students sometimes, but this is a process that solidifies the learning for them.  We all know that things we have “taught ourselves” seem to have stuck more than things we just “sit and get.”

Think of a lesson that you could “test” this theory…put it in your lesson plans and do it.  Have the kids learn something by offering questions.  It worked for Socrates. 

Hope everyone has a great Monday full of questions.